I didnt vote cause I am a female and i like my AO.. yet i think the lag in Grudge is ridicoulus, and believe it or not i like fighting now and then as well.. still I would wote for a "No AO's in Grudge" there is where the huge lag is a problem right? and soo much easier to remember and controll then specifying a certain moment when yer in combat and then remember to take it off.. I also think that will just add to the ooc none of us really like and people that plainly forgot in the stress of suddenly being hit getting yelled at or ridiculed.

well.. this was my five lindens at least